You are finally happy with your new gay relationship. The only problem is that you have no idea how to confess to your friends that you are gay. You don’t want things to change. To be totally happy you need to be honest with them and with yourself. You have no reason to hide!

Keep in mind that your friends already suspect that you are gay. If they are spending a lot of time with you they already know. Probably they don’t dare to ask you. You are the one who should be honest about this. Invite them all at a coffee and tell them. You might be very relieved to see that they have no problem with this. They might even admire you for your courage. Probably they will have a lot of questions for you. Now it’s the time to be completely honest.

The news might come as a shock for some of them. Thus it’s better to let them think about it for a few days. Only your real friends will stick around after your coming out. This will be like a real friendship test. It’s important to stay calm and positive. Your new life is about to start!

It’s important to relax and to not force yourself to tell them. You should do it when you feel prepared. Get ready to be totally honest and answer all their questions. Tell them how difficult it was for you to keep this secret.

Everybody looks for the perfect relationship. After they had enough time to accept that you are gay you can introduce your life partner to them. They will be able to see how happy you are. It’s important to let them know that you are the same person.

Try not to change anything in the relation with your friends. You used to meet them every Saturday night. You can bring your partner too but make sure they will not feel marginalized.

You are free to love and be loved. It’s not easy to find true love. You should take advantage of every good thing in your life. This is the best thing it could happen to anybody. You have to show your friends how happy you are.

Telling your friends that you have a gay relationship might be difficult. Remember that you do this for your happiness. It’s impossible to be happy when you have something to hide.

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